柔茹剛吐（柔茹剛吐）　

◎ 柔茹剛吐 róurú-gāngtǔ

[deceive the good and afraid of evil] 《詩·大雅》:“人亦有言:柔則茹之,剛則吐之。維仲山甫,柔亦不茹,剛亦不吐;不侮矜寡,不畏強(qiáng)御。”孔穎達(dá)疏:“喻見前敵寡弱者則侵侮之,強(qiáng)盛者則避畏之。”后以“柔茹剛吐”比喻欺弱避強(qiáng),欺軟怕硬。亦作“吐剛?cè)闳?rdquo;